When it comes to dating, most men worry about what to say, how to act, and where to take the girl.
By all means, these are important questions to ask.
However, the most important variable that determines how well your date goes is timing.
For example, never go on a date with a girl on Friday or Saturday night. It communicates that you like her a lot. You'll get stuck with a huge bill for dinner and drinks.
More importantly, girls know that Friday and Saturday night are prime real-estate for meeting other women.
If you make plans with a girl for a Friday or Saturday night, it sends the message that you really like her a lot, have nothing else to do, or are scared she'll go out and meet other men. Not good, my friend.
Big holidays are also bad. The worst of all is New Year's Eve. You'll end up spending a boatload of money on the both of you. To add insult to injury, you may not even get a kiss. At midnight, she might wish she had someone else to kiss.
The lesson to be learned: Don't spend your hard earned money taking girls out on weekends or holidays. Instead, save your money and use these holidays as an excuse to meet and attract other girls.
Why would you want to take a girl out on Halloween or New Year's Eve? This is the best time of year to meet new girls.
There is an exception to this: if the girl is your girlfriend, then it's permissible to take her out on weekends and holidays.
But if she isn't, don't do it. Make plans to see her during the week. Never take her to a restaurant or bar. Instead, take her to get coffee. Then try to invite her over your place. That's when you want to make your move. What if she isn't a willing subject? Who cares. You've only spent a few dollars.
By all means, these are important questions to ask.
However, the most important variable that determines how well your date goes is timing.
For example, never go on a date with a girl on Friday or Saturday night. It communicates that you like her a lot. You'll get stuck with a huge bill for dinner and drinks.
More importantly, girls know that Friday and Saturday night are prime real-estate for meeting other women.
If you make plans with a girl for a Friday or Saturday night, it sends the message that you really like her a lot, have nothing else to do, or are scared she'll go out and meet other men. Not good, my friend.
Big holidays are also bad. The worst of all is New Year's Eve. You'll end up spending a boatload of money on the both of you. To add insult to injury, you may not even get a kiss. At midnight, she might wish she had someone else to kiss.
The lesson to be learned: Don't spend your hard earned money taking girls out on weekends or holidays. Instead, save your money and use these holidays as an excuse to meet and attract other girls.
Why would you want to take a girl out on Halloween or New Year's Eve? This is the best time of year to meet new girls.
There is an exception to this: if the girl is your girlfriend, then it's permissible to take her out on weekends and holidays.
But if she isn't, don't do it. Make plans to see her during the week. Never take her to a restaurant or bar. Instead, take her to get coffee. Then try to invite her over your place. That's when you want to make your move. What if she isn't a willing subject? Who cares. You've only spent a few dollars.
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Learn what the existential philosopher Sren Kierkegaard can teach us about how to seduce women.